Me, me, me-- I, I, I...

It's 100% about control. Being 100% in control of your world, your life, your money, your woman, and your child, (it's never "our" anything unless you possess controlling interest) is the only thing that enters these men's minds. This is what you have been raised on, and preached at about from whatever "good book" applies to you for your whole life. If keeping your grip on your absolute control is your only goal, how much consideration do you give to anyone's rights but your own? It's 100% about control.